Women are so complicated and so picky that it’s hard to know exactly what they like. With all the unspoken clues women are so fond of giving, it’s hard to tell what she likes sometimes. Many men never sit back and stop to consider that maybe the exact same way you’re feeling about women is how they feel about you, too. Lots of men are so worried about pushing women away or scaring them off that even if they like something or want to try something new, they won’t mention it. If you have a steady casual fling going, letting her know what you do and don’t like is the only way you’re going to keep the fun in your relationship.

Better Communication = Better Sex

It’s no secret that the better you communicate with your lady the better your sex is going to be. If you know what she likes, that’s great but what’s really going to make or break the relationship is whether or not she knows what you like, too. Most men will say they just like sex and that they’re not into anything in particular, but we know that every man has at least one thing that he really likes, or one thing he really wants to try with the lady he’s hooking up with. The better you are at communicating what you like in the bedroom, the better your sex lives are going to be and it’s just that simple.

Women Like a Guy Who Knows What He Likes

Women like confidence. It’s a proven fact. They like a guy who’s confident enough to tell her what he likes. If you know what you’re looking for and you know exactly what gets you going in the bedroom, she’s only going to be impressed with the way you take charge and suggest new things to do. Always wanted to try a new kink? Suggest it to her. Tell her you like it or tell her that you’ve been thinking about trying it and if she likes it too, honestly she’ll be relieved that you brought it up first. Women like a man who makes the first move with these types of things. A lot of women want to try kinkier things but don’t want men to think of them differently, so they’ll wait for him to mention it.

Determine Sexual Compatibility

The most important reason you shouldn’t beat around the bush with things you like and want to do with your lady is that it’s going to tell you if you’re sexually compatible. If you come right out and say what you’re interested in, you’ll know her opinion of it and reaction right away. If she reacts poorly to the things you say you want to try, then you’ll know that even if you’ve been having fun together, you aren’t truly sexually compatible. It’ll give you the time to move on and find another woman to hook up with who appreciates your interests. The last thing you want to do is waste your time with a woman who you won’t truly have fun with.